Valentine's day..^_^ for single..

Are you single, do not have a sweetheart and hate Valentine's Day?

The celebration of Valentine's Day is not limited to lovers but includes any and everyone loved by us, be it our parents, siblings, children, friends, relatives or dear ones. Popular conception and lopsided media promotion has resulted in Valentine's Day being widely regarded only as a day for lovers. And yet, the occasion is not so. In its true sense, Valentine's Day celebrates love. The festival is a celebration of love. Think clear and think hard and you are sure to arrive at the conclusion that Saint Valentine stood up to defend love and not romantic partners. 

Go through these tips to know how you can indulge in Valentine's Day festivities in your own special way. 

Spend Quality time with family members

The fast paced world has left us with little time to be with our dear ones. Valentine's Day can be a wonderful opportunity for you to spend time with your family members. You can party, make a trip to the restaurant or go out for a movie together. 

Party with unhitched friends 

Going out with your single friends can also be a great option. Visit a friend's house or invite your pals to your own home. Catch a movie together, play party games or have a picnic. You will be surprised at what a gala time you can have even without any romantic interest. 

Good acts

This is also a good time to shower your love on those who really need it. Visit a hospital, an orphanage or old age home and meet with ailed or old people who have none to care for them. It is best to contact the hospital authorities beforehand and prearrange your visit to avoid any embarrassment later. Take along a bouquet of yellow roses along and gift each of them a blossom. This is sure to touch them and fill them with the warmth of love. You will feel as much pleasure in giving gifts to the less fortunate as they themselves will.





Happy Valentine's day..^_~

God Loves.....

God is Love: How do we Define Love?
"God is Love", but how do we define it? The American Heritage Dictionary defines love as "an intense affection for another person based on familial or personal ties". Often this "intense affection" stems from a sexual attraction for that other person. We love other people, or we say we love other people, when we are attracted to them and when they make us feel good. Notice that a key phrase in the dictionary definition of love is the phrase "based on". This phrase implies that we love conditionally; in other words, we love someone because they fulfill a condition that we require before we can love them. How many times have you heard or said, "I love you because you are cute;" or "I love you because you take good care of me;" or "I love you because you are fun to be with"?

Our love is not only conditional, it is also mercurial. We love based on feelings and emotions that can change from one moment to the next. The divorce rate is extremely high in today's society because husbands and wives supposedly stop loving one another-or they "fall out of love". They may go through a rough patch in their marriage, and they no longer "feel" love for their spouse, so they call it quits. Evidently, their marriage vow of "till death do us part" means they can part at the death of their love for their spouse rather than at their physical death.

Can anyone really comprehend "unconditional" love? It seems the love that parents have for their children is as close to unconditional love as we can get without the help of God's love in our lives. We continue to love our children through good times and bad, and we don't stop loving them if they don't meet the expectations we may have for them. We make a choice to love our children even when we consider them unlovable; our love doesn't stop when we don't "feel" love for them. This is similar to God's love for us, but as we shall see, God's love transcends the human definition of love to a point that is hard for us to comprehend.

God is Love: How does God Define Love?
The Bible tells us that "God is Love" (1 John 4:8). But how can we even begin to understand that truth? There are many passages in the Bible that give us God's definition of love. The most well known verse is John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." So one way God defines love is in the act of giving. However, what God gave (or should we say, "who" God gave) was not a mere gift-wrapped present; God sacrificed His only Son so that we, who put our faith in His Son, will not spend eternity separated from Him. This is an amazing love, because we are the ones who choose to be separated from God through our own sin, yet it's God who mends the separation through His intense personal sacrifice, and all we have to do is accept His gift.

Another great verse about God's love is found in Romans 5:8, "But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." In this verse and in John 3:16, we find no conditions placed on God's love for us. God doesn't say, "as soon as you clean up your act, I'll love you; " nor does He say, "I'll sacrifice my Son if you promise to love Me." In fact, in Romans 5:8, we find just the opposite. God wants us to know that His love is unconditional, so He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for us while we were still unlovable sinners. We didn't have to get clean, and we didn't have to make any promises to God before we could experience His love. His love for us has always existed, and because of that, He did all the giving and sacrificing long before we were even aware that we needed His love.

God is Love: It's Unconditional
God is Love, and His love is very different from human love. God's love is unconditional, and it's not based on feelings or emotions. He doesn't love us because we're lovable or because we make Him feel good; He loves us because He is love. He created us to have a loving relationship with Him, and He sacrificed His own Son (who also willingly died for us) to restore that relationship.

am i falling in love with him/her or not..???

do u ever falling in love...???(^_~)(well...well...just answer it in your heart ya..)
i know that every people specially for those who are really have a cold heart or "hati batu" are so hard to realize their feeling when they like someone..they confused if they are really like or falling in love with him/her or not..that is causes of their "hati batu"..am i right?hihi..
especially for the girl's and boy's that already have an affair as a bestfriends,they really really hard to know their feeling,confused..(am i falling in love with my own bestfriend's...oh No!it can't be...!!!)but actually,they are already fall in love but saja2 xmo realize..maybe afraid of something..(hihi)

here are some tips or signs that can help you to know about your true feeling...( are u in love with someone or not)so that u don't confused anymore..hehe...

Sometimes knowing if you are in love is hard, especially if it is your first time. Here are eighteen ways to tell if you are falling in love.

1. You are comfortable and secure in your relationship. You trust that your partner won't hurt you and there is no need of suspicion or jealousy.
2. You have remained together through good times and bad.
3. Thoughtful things are done just because it makes both of you feel good.
4. Neither of you make sacrifices, only compromises.
5. Your significant other has told you of their deep feelings, and they are returned.
6. Your affections for your partner make you feel special and good about yourself.
7. When there is a fight, you usually make up after only a few hours and agree that nothing is more important than both of you expressing your true feelings, even if they cause conflict.
8. You and your partner feel no need to test each others feelings or loyalties.
9. You can be yourself when with your partner more so than anyone else.
10. You've forgotten your ex.
11. You can't stop thinking about your partner.
12. You care about your significant other more than anything.
13. You find your partners quirks charming.
14. You have great chemistry.
15. You don't notice others as much.
16. You love spending time together.
17. Other priorities take a backseat.
18. You start thinking about your future together.

well...how's do you feel..

already answer your question heart...??

syusss......just keep it secret k..only you know it..^_~

then now..don't be wait...tell her/him about your feeling and she/he will understand it...Chayo...!!!^_~

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pLaYiNg gUiTaR.......

guitar....is one of the instruments that people always use in music....

i <3 guitar...very very much...^_~

i ever make a song by myself...but for Christian songs only la..hehe.

if one day i will record it,then i can upload it in this blog..or FB..^_~

by this way,i can show my love and any feeling to my God's because i know that He can understand me..

even i do not know how to pray very well but by the words in my song, i feel that He can hear me..(but actually..He always know what we need before we pray)hehe..

anyway, i'm proud to be a child of God's because.....of many things..His Love,His power,His Kingdom and a lots....etc... 

i love guitar acoustic...the melody..so soft..i love it..    

someday,i must learn how to play piano or keyboard...that is my wish..hehe.

well...until now..for me..guitar is still the best instrument that suitable for girl's..that is my opinion la..hehe.

~peace~